To have a happy and productive family, share spiritually as many positive moments as possible with your spouse. Then team up with them to help teach kids to behave in a satisfactory manner. If all goes well, you won’t have to bail anyone out of jail.
And oh-by-the-way… make your family extremely important to you…such that you don’t mind going out of your way to help them… include others too, who need help. You’ll be glad you did. 😎❤️
Don’t judge me by my work
Judge me by my family

and the spirit can soar!